Hi Mairving, I PM'd you, but thought I'd mention here as well that I can advise you about Community Server. I actually considered moving our church site to Community Server, but I had already built two Member-only areas for the church supporting a member photo directory, label creation, member address book output to Outlook, email lists and other functions. Those sites went nowhere, so I didn't think Community Server would have a chance either. Community Server would be a great platform for a church community site though, with forums, blogs, file downloads, photo galleries, and available source code to customize it, which is why I like it. No community software app meets all of your needs out of the box. It's also .NET, so its strong on Microsoft platforms if that's important.

Didn't mean to go so long here. Happy to discuss CS further with you.

Best regards,
Dave